variety time?please.....?

Sex can be completely mundane boring or even for many girls something they are just not into. It can also be exotic, arousing, sensual, exciting, fullfilling fun and a highlight of life. So how do we go for these extremes of intimacy? Well with men we are stimulated by the sight of a beautiful woman, we feel the soft touch of her skin, the warmth of her flesh to ours, the smell of her perfume and soft kiss of the lips and bam! we are ready to go, and naturally we assume so should she(after all our manly musk must have turned her into a full on nypho for us right?) we unless you are on a TV show or possible the last man on earth this is not so, and the male population sighs...For women foreplay starts in the mind, the soft words, the morning embrace when you circle her in your arms in the morning and whisper in her ear how much you love her for the little genuine things, when you encourage here how beautiful she is and how much she means to you.

Take the time to find out what makes her tick, for a woman to be aroused by you, you have to respect her and treat her with the care you would invest in something of priceless value. Take the time to excite and entice her (no this does not mean to walk by, flash her and say “like what you see") this means take the time to do the special things, to think of new ideas to surprise her and stimulate her mind.
Learn to verbalize the acts of love, to whisper those promises of things to come, learn not just to have sex, but to make love. I don't mean this as "oh the emotions and flaming feelings" I mean take the time to learn new things, to always improve and keep things exciting.
It’s not their job to take care of all our desires and keep things exciting its ours, they do so much for us we should take it up to be good lovers for them. that girl who you think is bored with sex or maybe does not respond the way she used to, well maybe you need to stimulate her more tell her she is beautiful and she will, tell her she is sexy and she will be, instead of all the time we spend complaining we don't get enough is time we could be spending spicing things up getting to know what excites her.
Start out with one thing, change it, add something new, and spend time doing something just for her. Then reinvent yourself and make yourself more attractive to her likes and needs and you will be surprised how far it goes.
grandpa said if you’re not progressing you are backsliding, and I think that that is true about sex, if it is always along the same lines with a few variations it gets dull, lifeless and a bore, so shake it up revolutionize it and explode (metaphorically guys ha) excite her with surprise acts of affection and touches, gentle kisses on her next and words or touches that help the anticipation. A woman’s mind is an imaginative, complex wonder that we can't hope to understand but that should not stop us from trying our best to excite love them mentally and physical. So make love to her mind as well as trying to make love to her body.
a woman’s mind is the window to her soul, spend more time giving her love ,appreciation and word and deeds of simple love and caring and they will take you further than boxes of chocolates or roses will. Ask the lord for ideas, or others or her and have fun a lot the way, half the fun is th